Its 10:00 on Friday and I am sitting here watching some television. The Cardinals lost today and fell out of first place.
My oldest daughter had a note sent home from school today. She scratched another girl in her class on the leg. When we asked her why she did that, she told us she did it because she wanted to. We get that answer quite a bit (b/c I wanted to). Interesting logic. God loves 4 year olds (or He is paying me back for all of the shit I did as a kid).
On another note, on Facebook, a friend of mine posted a new Supreme Court opinion, Kentucky v. King (or King v. Kentucky - I don't feel like looking it up). In any event, the Court in King decided, essentially, that if the police accidentally created exigent circumstances they could enter a house without a warrant. Long story short, in King, the defendants were in their house. Police were chasing another man threw the apartment building when the lost sight of him. They believed he went into a particular apartmnet, so they knocked on the door and announced their presence. They heard scuffling behind the door and assumed the people (the presumed person they were chasing) was destroying evidence. Tnhey broke in the door and found King with drugs even though he was not the target of the investigation. King said the cops were not in his apartment legally because they did not have a warrant. the Court disagreed.
I posted a quick note in response indicating I disagreed with the opinion because it could give officers a means to "create" circumstances that would justify a warrantless intrusion. There is a built in tension between police and defense counsel. Many times, we have to present the police as evil, or that they only act with bad intentions. I know for me, and I would assume for most of the defense attorneys that I know, that all officcers are not bad or trying to just lock up anybody for any reason. Clearly, most police (the vast vast majority) are good people trying to do things the right way, the right way in a job that is largely thankless.
Saying that, though, the various protections of the U.S constitution and relevant state constitutions are not abot protecting citizens from the police officers who have integrity and character. Instead, those protections are meant to protect citizens from those officers and law enforcement who are willing to do anything to arrest somebody, gain a prosecution, or otherwise "do their job". The issue that seems to be largely missed is the protections that are afforded all citizens (not just those related to law enforcement), but all protections are about ensuring the citizens of the USA are protected and remain the rightful owners of this Country. Once those protections are gone (and they are slowly being taken away), then this Country will be in worse shape.
On a good note, I left work early to get my son's birth certificate from teh county office today. That was a success. After, I went to the park to play with the kids. We came home and made hamburgers for dinner (of course the fun was tempered by the note described above). All in all, though, a good night.
As always, this is just what I think.
Be Easy
-- CP
It is what the title says, it is simply what I think. nothing more and nothing less.
Friday, May 20, 2011
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Not a lot to say today
In an interesting turn of events, I don't have much to say today. I had a court appearance early, and then office work, which is the bane of my existence. I was somewhat productive today. I made it home about 7:10 (normal time). As usual, the best part of my day is when I open the door.
As soon as I open the door and step inside, my two oldest daughters run to me to give me a hug. I know that eventually they will not do that. Since they are only 4 1/2 and 2, they still are happy when I get home. I am sure that over the next few years that will change. First, the oldest will decide she is not happy I am home and then the youngest. The boy, who is only 7 months, has a while before he does not want me around.
I was having a discussion with a friend of mine about when is it okay to let your child spend the night at somebody's house? In the end, I guess you have make the decision based upon your child and how well you know the parent. It is an interesting topic though. Do you let your children spend the night at a house where there is only a man present? Does there have to be a women around for a parent to feel comfortable letting their child spend the night? Does a woman have to be present for your child to be welcome at another's house. At first, I thought that would be crazy, but the more I considered my daughters I decided that, frankly, I would not be wild about either of them spending time at any house where there was an adult man. Never really thought about it before, but I guess I am going to have to soon.
By the way, Thunder in 6.
I already described the good thing that happened today (the girls running to hug me when I got home). I hope everybody has a great day tomorrow.
Remember, this is just what I think.
Be easy
-cp
As soon as I open the door and step inside, my two oldest daughters run to me to give me a hug. I know that eventually they will not do that. Since they are only 4 1/2 and 2, they still are happy when I get home. I am sure that over the next few years that will change. First, the oldest will decide she is not happy I am home and then the youngest. The boy, who is only 7 months, has a while before he does not want me around.
I was having a discussion with a friend of mine about when is it okay to let your child spend the night at somebody's house? In the end, I guess you have make the decision based upon your child and how well you know the parent. It is an interesting topic though. Do you let your children spend the night at a house where there is only a man present? Does there have to be a women around for a parent to feel comfortable letting their child spend the night? Does a woman have to be present for your child to be welcome at another's house. At first, I thought that would be crazy, but the more I considered my daughters I decided that, frankly, I would not be wild about either of them spending time at any house where there was an adult man. Never really thought about it before, but I guess I am going to have to soon.
By the way, Thunder in 6.
I already described the good thing that happened today (the girls running to hug me when I got home). I hope everybody has a great day tomorrow.
Remember, this is just what I think.
Be easy
-cp
Monday, May 16, 2011
Seriously ... seriously.
As some of you may have seen, Bernard Hopkins (boxer) has accused Donovan McNabb of not being "black enough." Seriously. Is being Black about being black enough? What does that even mean? This troubles me, not only because I have heard that insult before, but also because I am the father of 3 children who are "mixed twice" (my phrase). They are going to hear insults about that (at least I assume so. I hope by the time they are older such ignorance has been eradicated, but I doubt it).
They are going to be questioned about their race, whether I'm their Dad (at least for the youngest since he has blue eyes), or whether my wife is their mother (the oldest two are darker). A major problem for the black community is this idea about "being black." Hopkins is only the latest to embarrass himself and his race by suggesting that a black man who grows up with parents and part of the middle class is not black enough. We probably all remember the Jalen Rose/Grant Hill debacle. For those that do not remember, Jalen Rose called Grant Hill an Uncle Tom because he grew up in a two parent home. Are you kidding me?
Grant Hill responded better than I ever could. Why must a black man be a certain way to be considered black enough. I've heard it from clients, class mates, and people in bars (when I did that type of stuff :). Is it too white to speak as if one has actually completed their education? Am I too white because I have 2 parents involved in my life. Am I too white because I am a lawyer? Where does the ignorance stop and when does actual common sense, wisdom, and progressive thinking (sad that this would be progressive) take over. When do black communities start elevating each other instead of pushing down?
I don't know the solution, but I know that things better change.
On another note, I discovered that Bread Company will make my ham and swiss toasted. Clearly, I should have known that, but I didn't. As result, I had a very good ham and swiss on toasted rye bread for lunch. I can only hope tomorrow brings as much joy as that sandwich.
Remember, it is just what I think.
Be Easy.
-cp
They are going to be questioned about their race, whether I'm their Dad (at least for the youngest since he has blue eyes), or whether my wife is their mother (the oldest two are darker). A major problem for the black community is this idea about "being black." Hopkins is only the latest to embarrass himself and his race by suggesting that a black man who grows up with parents and part of the middle class is not black enough. We probably all remember the Jalen Rose/Grant Hill debacle. For those that do not remember, Jalen Rose called Grant Hill an Uncle Tom because he grew up in a two parent home. Are you kidding me?
Grant Hill responded better than I ever could. Why must a black man be a certain way to be considered black enough. I've heard it from clients, class mates, and people in bars (when I did that type of stuff :). Is it too white to speak as if one has actually completed their education? Am I too white because I have 2 parents involved in my life. Am I too white because I am a lawyer? Where does the ignorance stop and when does actual common sense, wisdom, and progressive thinking (sad that this would be progressive) take over. When do black communities start elevating each other instead of pushing down?
I don't know the solution, but I know that things better change.
On another note, I discovered that Bread Company will make my ham and swiss toasted. Clearly, I should have known that, but I didn't. As result, I had a very good ham and swiss on toasted rye bread for lunch. I can only hope tomorrow brings as much joy as that sandwich.
Remember, it is just what I think.
Be Easy.
-cp
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Its Just What I Think: 5:13 AM
Its Just What I Think: 5:13 AM: "Its 5:13 A.M. I have been up since 4:04 A.M. My son, who is 7 1/2 months old, usually gets up between 3 and 4 to eat. We can't get him en..."
5:13 AM
Its 5:13 A.M. I have been up since 4:04 A.M. My son, who is 7 1/2 months old, usually gets up between 3 and 4 to eat. We can't get him enough formula / cereal to get him through the night. The real problem comes because if he makes it to 4, then he does not go back to sleep. Unfortunately, I was up fairly late last night (late if you have to get up at 4), so I am quite tired. Luckily, the 2 oldest kids will probably be up in 1 hour or so (sarcasm).
Of course, I should not complain, since just 2 months ago, my son was sleeping considerably worse, so we are moving in the right direction. I can say, with 100 percent certainty, that I cannot go through the baby stage again. I know some people love it, I, on the other hand, appreciate it for what it is, but I am a not a huge fan.
I hope the older kids sleep for a while. Like clockwork they get up at between 6 - 6:45. I don't remember the last time they slept until 7. What is even better is the later they go to bed, the earlier they get up. I hear these crazy stories of kids sleeping until 10 (at least that is the story that parents are telling), but God knows my kids aren't doing that. I guess the trade off is that my kids go to bed early so I/we have the night to ourselves. I ususally know that our shift is going to end about 7:30 or 8:00 which is a good feeling. I won't liek though, there are mornings (like right FREAKING NOW!) when I would like my shift to start a little later.
Its all good though. Looks like another crappy weather day today. Weird spring weather.
Cardinals lost again. They have officially removed Sanchez from the closer role, probably time since he continues to walk batters. I wish they would give Salas a look. He closed in the minors and he looks calm when he is pitching. Guess we'll see. I hope the bullpen (closer) is not the downfall of the 2011 Cardinals because they look like a team that could be very good. I assume they will trade for a closer as the season progresses if they remain successful. Heath Bell would look good in a Cardinal uniform.
That is all I have right now, except a big GO BULLS in their series with the Heat. It starts today. I pick Bulls in 7, though that may be my heart talking. Nobody knows yet how the Heat will handle being down in a series. Also, this is the first series where they don't have home court advantage. It will be an interesting game tonight.
Also, hope the Thunder win. I don't mind the Grizzlies, but the Thunder can take it to Dallas. I have no real rooting interest in the western conference since the Lakers were unceremoniously dumped a week ago.
I hope everybody has a fantastic day. I will likely write another blog (of more substance) tonight. I have a few ideas kicking around in my head and I need to get them on the proverbial paper (or screen now).
Lastly, the good thing today -- I was up at 4, as I already discussed, and I flipped on Facebook. I saw a wall post from one of my best friends,John Fraleigh. Check out his Facebook page. In any event, we were college roommates for 5 years (he took a victory lap). He was married a couple of years ago and he had his first son on May 14, 2011. He was early by about 5 weeks because they needed to do an emergency C-Section because of a compressed cord. I could not be happier for John. He is one of the best guys I know and he will be a fantastic father. We had some great times. I can't believe that I first met him in August 1992 when we both started at St. Louis University. Time flies.
Be Easy
-- CP
Of course, I should not complain, since just 2 months ago, my son was sleeping considerably worse, so we are moving in the right direction. I can say, with 100 percent certainty, that I cannot go through the baby stage again. I know some people love it, I, on the other hand, appreciate it for what it is, but I am a not a huge fan.
I hope the older kids sleep for a while. Like clockwork they get up at between 6 - 6:45. I don't remember the last time they slept until 7. What is even better is the later they go to bed, the earlier they get up. I hear these crazy stories of kids sleeping until 10 (at least that is the story that parents are telling), but God knows my kids aren't doing that. I guess the trade off is that my kids go to bed early so I/we have the night to ourselves. I ususally know that our shift is going to end about 7:30 or 8:00 which is a good feeling. I won't liek though, there are mornings (like right FREAKING NOW!) when I would like my shift to start a little later.
Its all good though. Looks like another crappy weather day today. Weird spring weather.
Cardinals lost again. They have officially removed Sanchez from the closer role, probably time since he continues to walk batters. I wish they would give Salas a look. He closed in the minors and he looks calm when he is pitching. Guess we'll see. I hope the bullpen (closer) is not the downfall of the 2011 Cardinals because they look like a team that could be very good. I assume they will trade for a closer as the season progresses if they remain successful. Heath Bell would look good in a Cardinal uniform.
That is all I have right now, except a big GO BULLS in their series with the Heat. It starts today. I pick Bulls in 7, though that may be my heart talking. Nobody knows yet how the Heat will handle being down in a series. Also, this is the first series where they don't have home court advantage. It will be an interesting game tonight.
Also, hope the Thunder win. I don't mind the Grizzlies, but the Thunder can take it to Dallas. I have no real rooting interest in the western conference since the Lakers were unceremoniously dumped a week ago.
I hope everybody has a fantastic day. I will likely write another blog (of more substance) tonight. I have a few ideas kicking around in my head and I need to get them on the proverbial paper (or screen now).
Lastly, the good thing today -- I was up at 4, as I already discussed, and I flipped on Facebook. I saw a wall post from one of my best friends,John Fraleigh. Check out his Facebook page. In any event, we were college roommates for 5 years (he took a victory lap). He was married a couple of years ago and he had his first son on May 14, 2011. He was early by about 5 weeks because they needed to do an emergency C-Section because of a compressed cord. I could not be happier for John. He is one of the best guys I know and he will be a fantastic father. We had some great times. I can't believe that I first met him in August 1992 when we both started at St. Louis University. Time flies.
Be Easy
-- CP
Friday, May 13, 2011
Day 5 (missed a day) -- Arch City Defenders
This is number 5, but the 6th day. I missed a day, but I missed it for a good reason.
I attended a fundraiser for an organization that I have been honored to serve on the Board of Directors. Archcity Defenders is a new law firm in St. Louis that is attempting to bridge the gap between indigent defendants who are represented by attorneys in the Missouri Public Defenders Office and those that cannot afford private counsel. In addition, they would like to fill gaps and represent individuals who would not qualify for PD services because they are charged in municipal court, but they still require representation. Finally, they are also hoping to break the "cycle of criminal conduct" by attempting to resolve the myriad of issues that individuals may have that are causing, or contributing to, the criminal conduct.
Please look at their website and see what they are doing.
The attorneys are all relatively young, recent graduates, but their idea is one that would be unbelievably beneficial to the St. Louis area. Those who work in, or around, the criminal justice system know that system is not efficient and is more akin to a factory line, pushing people through without any real regard to actual rehabilitation or assistance so the criminal conduct does not reoccur.
Though I am not familiar with the criminal justice systems in other cities, I have no doubt they are run the same way, that is, push people through and keep the system moving. That simply is not good enough. This city, and many others, have enough problems and if we do not begin considering ways to address those needs, and the needs of the poorest citizens, then this city, and all cities will become almost inhabitable.
I am one blog down and I will write two in one of the next two days. I will continue with this topic because I believe it is important, but remember, it is just what I think.
Today was a beautiful day. Weather was mid 70s and, as a result, I took longer to walk to my car, drove with the windows open, and listened to some music. Today was a good day. Since I am sure you are curious, I was listening to Snoop Dogg's First CD (Doggystyle). One of the best.
Be Easy
-- CP
I attended a fundraiser for an organization that I have been honored to serve on the Board of Directors. Archcity Defenders is a new law firm in St. Louis that is attempting to bridge the gap between indigent defendants who are represented by attorneys in the Missouri Public Defenders Office and those that cannot afford private counsel. In addition, they would like to fill gaps and represent individuals who would not qualify for PD services because they are charged in municipal court, but they still require representation. Finally, they are also hoping to break the "cycle of criminal conduct" by attempting to resolve the myriad of issues that individuals may have that are causing, or contributing to, the criminal conduct.
Please look at their website and see what they are doing.
The attorneys are all relatively young, recent graduates, but their idea is one that would be unbelievably beneficial to the St. Louis area. Those who work in, or around, the criminal justice system know that system is not efficient and is more akin to a factory line, pushing people through without any real regard to actual rehabilitation or assistance so the criminal conduct does not reoccur.
Though I am not familiar with the criminal justice systems in other cities, I have no doubt they are run the same way, that is, push people through and keep the system moving. That simply is not good enough. This city, and many others, have enough problems and if we do not begin considering ways to address those needs, and the needs of the poorest citizens, then this city, and all cities will become almost inhabitable.
I am one blog down and I will write two in one of the next two days. I will continue with this topic because I believe it is important, but remember, it is just what I think.
Today was a beautiful day. Weather was mid 70s and, as a result, I took longer to walk to my car, drove with the windows open, and listened to some music. Today was a good day. Since I am sure you are curious, I was listening to Snoop Dogg's First CD (Doggystyle). One of the best.
Be Easy
-- CP
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Its Just What I Think: Day 4 -- Wednesday
Its Just What I Think: Day 4 -- Wednesday: "Its day 4. Today was a productive day, even if I did not get done everything that I wanted. I have a CLE tomorrow, so I will not get too m..."
Day 4 -- Wednesday
Its day 4. Today was a productive day, even if I did not get done everything that I wanted. I have a CLE tomorrow, so I will not get too much finished. As I said when I first started this blog, sometimes i will have nothing to say, other times, I will have actual opinions.
I have been thinking, though, about the current state of this country. I have written before about race, politicians, and other related topics. Today, I saw a Facebook post from a high-school friend commenting on gas prices as the price of oil continues to drop. That got me thinking exactly how much corporations control this county. I am not a "conspiracy" guy, but I do believe that the people have lost all power they were supposed to have in the governing process. I believe this to be true from local to national government. Clearly, the businesses have more money to support various candidates (support is a euphemism for bribe, if I wasn't clear). Is there really any doubt that the companies are running things?
If corporations were not in control, the immigration problem would be significantly helped if enforcement focused on the employers of illegal immigrants. If a couple of businesses were hit with large fines and other criminal penalties they would stop employing them. In addition those jobs might be given to citizens of the US who are looking for work. It seems to me that attacking the poor people looking for a better life is the wrong target. I understand the issue, but if at the same time you are not prosecuting the companies, you are really doing nothing. As long there is demand, then the supply will keep coming.
This is the same issue with the gas companies. How do the prices go up when the price of oil drops. For the longest time you read references to the price of oil and, if OBL was caught, that might help the price. Guess what, it did help the price of oil. Unfortunately, Mobile, Shell, BP, and Exxon are keeping the gas prices high. Has it occurred to anybody to look into this? If the government is in the business of helping its citizens, why not step in? Of course, the reason is clear. Do we think there are four companies with more money to lobby for the type of legislation that benefits them?
Clearly, the Government has stopped working for the people. Certainly they are not working for the regular citizen, the wealthy may get benefits, but the regular citizen has no power in the current structure. when will it change? How will it change?
Today, my wife took a sticker from my oldest daughter (5 stickers equals a trip to the park), but my wife decided to let my daughter earn it back. I got home about 7:30 and was told how all of this went down. I went into my daughter's room and we talked. She asked if she could have her sticker back. I told her it depended on her behavior. Later she called me in to discuss the sticker. I told her that she would get the sticker tomorrow (Thursday). She began crying. i asked why was she crying? She told me she was crying b/c she did not earn her sticker back for Wednesday so she would not have enough stickers for the trip to the park. This was amusing to me b/c she figured she needed the sticker today to get credit today. Funny girl.
as it turns out, she did earn the sticker back and we'll put it on the calendar tomorrow.
Remember, this is just what I think.
Be Easy
- CP
I have been thinking, though, about the current state of this country. I have written before about race, politicians, and other related topics. Today, I saw a Facebook post from a high-school friend commenting on gas prices as the price of oil continues to drop. That got me thinking exactly how much corporations control this county. I am not a "conspiracy" guy, but I do believe that the people have lost all power they were supposed to have in the governing process. I believe this to be true from local to national government. Clearly, the businesses have more money to support various candidates (support is a euphemism for bribe, if I wasn't clear). Is there really any doubt that the companies are running things?
If corporations were not in control, the immigration problem would be significantly helped if enforcement focused on the employers of illegal immigrants. If a couple of businesses were hit with large fines and other criminal penalties they would stop employing them. In addition those jobs might be given to citizens of the US who are looking for work. It seems to me that attacking the poor people looking for a better life is the wrong target. I understand the issue, but if at the same time you are not prosecuting the companies, you are really doing nothing. As long there is demand, then the supply will keep coming.
This is the same issue with the gas companies. How do the prices go up when the price of oil drops. For the longest time you read references to the price of oil and, if OBL was caught, that might help the price. Guess what, it did help the price of oil. Unfortunately, Mobile, Shell, BP, and Exxon are keeping the gas prices high. Has it occurred to anybody to look into this? If the government is in the business of helping its citizens, why not step in? Of course, the reason is clear. Do we think there are four companies with more money to lobby for the type of legislation that benefits them?
Clearly, the Government has stopped working for the people. Certainly they are not working for the regular citizen, the wealthy may get benefits, but the regular citizen has no power in the current structure. when will it change? How will it change?
Today, my wife took a sticker from my oldest daughter (5 stickers equals a trip to the park), but my wife decided to let my daughter earn it back. I got home about 7:30 and was told how all of this went down. I went into my daughter's room and we talked. She asked if she could have her sticker back. I told her it depended on her behavior. Later she called me in to discuss the sticker. I told her that she would get the sticker tomorrow (Thursday). She began crying. i asked why was she crying? She told me she was crying b/c she did not earn her sticker back for Wednesday so she would not have enough stickers for the trip to the park. This was amusing to me b/c she figured she needed the sticker today to get credit today. Funny girl.
as it turns out, she did earn the sticker back and we'll put it on the calendar tomorrow.
Remember, this is just what I think.
Be Easy
- CP
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Its Just What I Think: Day 3
Its Just What I Think: Day 3: "This is day 3. I know it does not seem like much, but it is the most days in a row I have posted. I don't have much to say tonight (surpri..."
Day 3
This is day 3. I know it does not seem like much, but it is the most days in a row I have posted. I don't have much to say tonight (surprisingly).
Tonight, I ate dinner with my nephew (son of my sister who passed away last year). We always have a good time and today was no different. Today we discussed his 12 year old daughter and some challenges she has been presenting. As importantly, we discussed our up coming depositions for the law suit filed by my sister's husband related to her death. I explained the deposition and how it will go. We discussed how horrible it is going to be.
The other side wants to take my deposition and, frankly, I don't know why. Rationally, I understand they have to depose everybody who might have relevant information related to my sister's death. Emotionally, though, I have no interest in sitting through some inane deposition with jack off lawyers and their various assistants and associates. I don't think my nephew or the rest of the family have any idea who emotionally draining it could be to relive relationships with Veronica and her illness, the mistakes, and her ultimate death. Not good to say the least. I assume the depos will be soon, and I really want them to be finished. not so much for me, but for my nephews, neice, and Veronica's sister. Hopefully, this will be over soon. It seems like, though, it is going on forever...
On a lighter note, the Cardinals won again. Good game, good timely hitting, and great result. This team has the chance to be very good (certainly better than the Cubs). I am really looking forward to this season. I never did follow up with anybody about the businessman's special, but I think I'm going on the 19th. Need to make a decision.
Finally, we had the parent-teacher conference for our oldest today (she is in pre-school, so its not like its 9th grade conferences), but it was nice to hear positive things about our daughter. She misses the cut-off for kindergarten by 2 months so she'll do "junior kindergarten" next year. She likes to go to school, so we are doing all right so far. Seems to me, as long as she likes to learn, then we can keep her on the right path, and by right path, I mean off the pole.
As I mentioned in my last post, I am going to end every one of these with something that made me smile, laugh, or just something positive. Today, I had dinner with my nephew. We always have a good time together, and, though we don't spend enough time together, it is always a great time to hang out with him.
That's all I have tonight. I hope everybody sleeps well.
Be Easy.
-cp
Tonight, I ate dinner with my nephew (son of my sister who passed away last year). We always have a good time and today was no different. Today we discussed his 12 year old daughter and some challenges she has been presenting. As importantly, we discussed our up coming depositions for the law suit filed by my sister's husband related to her death. I explained the deposition and how it will go. We discussed how horrible it is going to be.
The other side wants to take my deposition and, frankly, I don't know why. Rationally, I understand they have to depose everybody who might have relevant information related to my sister's death. Emotionally, though, I have no interest in sitting through some inane deposition with jack off lawyers and their various assistants and associates. I don't think my nephew or the rest of the family have any idea who emotionally draining it could be to relive relationships with Veronica and her illness, the mistakes, and her ultimate death. Not good to say the least. I assume the depos will be soon, and I really want them to be finished. not so much for me, but for my nephews, neice, and Veronica's sister. Hopefully, this will be over soon. It seems like, though, it is going on forever...
On a lighter note, the Cardinals won again. Good game, good timely hitting, and great result. This team has the chance to be very good (certainly better than the Cubs). I am really looking forward to this season. I never did follow up with anybody about the businessman's special, but I think I'm going on the 19th. Need to make a decision.
Finally, we had the parent-teacher conference for our oldest today (she is in pre-school, so its not like its 9th grade conferences), but it was nice to hear positive things about our daughter. She misses the cut-off for kindergarten by 2 months so she'll do "junior kindergarten" next year. She likes to go to school, so we are doing all right so far. Seems to me, as long as she likes to learn, then we can keep her on the right path, and by right path, I mean off the pole.
As I mentioned in my last post, I am going to end every one of these with something that made me smile, laugh, or just something positive. Today, I had dinner with my nephew. We always have a good time together, and, though we don't spend enough time together, it is always a great time to hang out with him.
That's all I have tonight. I hope everybody sleeps well.
Be Easy.
-cp
Monday, May 9, 2011
Its Just What I Think: Day 2
Its Just What I Think: Day 2: "It is day 2 of my 30 posts in 30 days. I am sure all of you are waiting with baited breath (all 4 of you that read this :) In any event, t..."
Day 2
It is day 2 of my 30 posts in 30 days. I am sure all of you are waiting with baited breath (all 4 of you that read this :) In any event, today was a fairly regular day. Nothing too big happened, which I suppose is a good thing. We had the normal battles with our 4 year old over bed time, but that is the norm right now.
I watched the Laker game yesterday and I was disgusted, as so many others, with the cheap shots taken by Odom and Bynum. Unlike some of my friends though (or 1) I will not disavow my love of the Lakers over those missteps. Clearly, it was dirty play, but it happens. While some act like it is the end of the world, it is nothing more than frustrated people doing somethign the shouldn't do. I am not going to lie here and say I haven't played a little dirty depending on teh circumstances. hell, I may have taken a cheap shot in my days on the court if frustrated enough.
The Cardinals are off today, as I assume most everybody with a computer knows. They are playing extremely well and I am getting excited about this team. I am considering going to the businessman's special on the 19th. I need somebody to go with me, but I suppose even if nobody can go (which would be reasonable) I may go anyway. I am getting excited over this team. The young pitchers are exciting and the offense appears to have some staying power. In a previous post, I predicted a win total of 70 - 75. It appears my pessimism has motivated the team to play significantly better. I have no doubt I have that type of control over the Cardinals and their record.
Finally, I have been waiting for a ruling from the 8th circuit on the owners request for a permanent stay pending the appeal in the matter now pending before the Court. As many know, the Court granted the request for a temporary stay, but has not ruled ont he request for a permanant stay. I am thiking they are going to find for the Owners or not rule on the request. I think, though, that will not predictive of whether the 8th Circuit will ultimately reverse the District Court's ruling. I am not a labor lawyer (unions, and such), but the District Court's ruling was well reasoned. It seems that many commentators are relying on the 8th Circuit's conservative bent (most of the judges were appointed by republican presidents) as a reason they will reverse the ruling. The only think I know is the Judges some times change views while on the Court. In addition, at their core, Judges are supposed to follow the law. I am not so naive as to believe that is what Judges always do, in fact, I could probably argue they are more likely to determine the result they want and use what ever reasoning or logic (no matter how stretched) go get to the result they want. m
My beliefs on that issue, though, has likely been shaped by the Courts opniins (and I mean all Courts from Supreme Court on down) regarding various criminal issues. It seems the Courts determine what they want to happen (unless it is an eggregious violation or error) and use what they need to get there.
In any event, I am extremely interested in this issue and I look forward to discussing their various rulings as this moves forward.
I have more to say (shocking to those that know me), but it will have to wait until tomorrow.
One thing I am going to begin on this blog every time I post is mentioning one thing that made me smile. Today, like most days, it was my daughter, Lucy. As usual, when I walked in the door, from her crib, she jumped up and began calling my name so I would give her a hug and kiss goodnight (this was before Lily threatened to get up). I will not make every one of these about my kids, but I thought the first one should, appropriately, be about them.
Remember, this is just what I think.
Be easy
- cp
Today, my smile
I watched the Laker game yesterday and I was disgusted, as so many others, with the cheap shots taken by Odom and Bynum. Unlike some of my friends though (or 1) I will not disavow my love of the Lakers over those missteps. Clearly, it was dirty play, but it happens. While some act like it is the end of the world, it is nothing more than frustrated people doing somethign the shouldn't do. I am not going to lie here and say I haven't played a little dirty depending on teh circumstances. hell, I may have taken a cheap shot in my days on the court if frustrated enough.
The Cardinals are off today, as I assume most everybody with a computer knows. They are playing extremely well and I am getting excited about this team. I am considering going to the businessman's special on the 19th. I need somebody to go with me, but I suppose even if nobody can go (which would be reasonable) I may go anyway. I am getting excited over this team. The young pitchers are exciting and the offense appears to have some staying power. In a previous post, I predicted a win total of 70 - 75. It appears my pessimism has motivated the team to play significantly better. I have no doubt I have that type of control over the Cardinals and their record.
Finally, I have been waiting for a ruling from the 8th circuit on the owners request for a permanent stay pending the appeal in the matter now pending before the Court. As many know, the Court granted the request for a temporary stay, but has not ruled ont he request for a permanant stay. I am thiking they are going to find for the Owners or not rule on the request. I think, though, that will not predictive of whether the 8th Circuit will ultimately reverse the District Court's ruling. I am not a labor lawyer (unions, and such), but the District Court's ruling was well reasoned. It seems that many commentators are relying on the 8th Circuit's conservative bent (most of the judges were appointed by republican presidents) as a reason they will reverse the ruling. The only think I know is the Judges some times change views while on the Court. In addition, at their core, Judges are supposed to follow the law. I am not so naive as to believe that is what Judges always do, in fact, I could probably argue they are more likely to determine the result they want and use what ever reasoning or logic (no matter how stretched) go get to the result they want. m
My beliefs on that issue, though, has likely been shaped by the Courts opniins (and I mean all Courts from Supreme Court on down) regarding various criminal issues. It seems the Courts determine what they want to happen (unless it is an eggregious violation or error) and use what they need to get there.
In any event, I am extremely interested in this issue and I look forward to discussing their various rulings as this moves forward.
I have more to say (shocking to those that know me), but it will have to wait until tomorrow.
One thing I am going to begin on this blog every time I post is mentioning one thing that made me smile. Today, like most days, it was my daughter, Lucy. As usual, when I walked in the door, from her crib, she jumped up and began calling my name so I would give her a hug and kiss goodnight (this was before Lily threatened to get up). I will not make every one of these about my kids, but I thought the first one should, appropriately, be about them.
Remember, this is just what I think.
Be easy
- cp
Today, my smile
Sunday, May 8, 2011
37
I am 37 years old today. Yes, today is my birthday. It is 5:21 AM. I am quite amazed that I am 37 years old. I don't know why, but it feels a older (which, of course, it is). I have meant to post more frequently, so I am going to do. now that I am 37 (such a milestone!), I am going to post 30 times in 30 days. I do not expect all of them to be good or master pieces (not that my previous posts have been), but still, the posts are coming. I like writing, whether it be short stories, my opinions on a wide range of topics, or simply stream of consciousness musings about the goings on in a particular day.
As for today, I am writing to declare that I can not celebrate death. In the aftermath of the Osama assassination, and let's not fool ourselves, it was an assassination, I can not join the thousands, if not millions, of people who celebrate the death. After seeing the various videos that have been released, I am even more disgusted by the celebrations. This is not to say that I do not understand why it was done, or that Osama's death may, ultimately, be a very important step on the so called "war on terror" (war on terror seems similar to war on drugs, a lot of money going into a slogan that sounds great but gets us nowhere), but celebrating death is not something I will take part in.
The irony, of course, in the pictures of college students, and other citizens, hopping around in celebration is remarkably similar to the pictures from the Middle East after 9/11. Does anybody involved in those celebrations recognize that? do they see that perhaps we are not as different as we would like to make ourselves out to be? Clearly, what we did was not a terrorist act, but celebrating death of anybody is wrong. I am uncomfortable by it and, frankly, it is disappointing that so many people celebrated his death.
Earlier this week, I found this quote :
"I mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that"
Of course, now, there have been articles that show this quote is not from Martin Luther King. Frankly, I don't give a shit whether it is an MLK quote or a quote from John the bum who lives under highway 40. The point of the quote is the reason that I, and probably others, posted the quote. It is interesting that articles come out proving it is not an MLK quotation, but no articles (I found) discussing the point of the quote and discussing if, perhaps, it is a quote that we should read, consider, and perhaps try to remember when we are celebrating the death of another human being.
Lastly, though Osama was clearly a man whose beliefs made him justify the deaths of thousands of innocent people, do we want to believe that certain deaths are justified? do we want to be the judge and jury for those people we believe deserve to die? I am not ready for that responsibility. I won't take it on. I will not celebrate death in any form or of anybody.
I believe it is wrong to celebrate death.
Remember, this is just what I think.
Be well.
--cp
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